Your parenting plan is the document that determines when you get to see your children and how much influence you have on their lives. You may have negotiated it and reached an agreement with the other parent, or a judge may have decided how to divide decision-making...
Child Custody
3 tips to create a parenting plan that minimizes fights
Intense disagreements typically come with the territory if you share custody of your underage children as a former romantic part. No matter how calm and considerate you try to be while co-parenting with your ex, the two of you will inevitably disagree about some...
3 things non-custodial parents should know about their rights
Child custody matters are often emotional for parents, especially when they learn that they won’t have custody of their children. Some individuals don’t realize that they still have rights to certain things even if they don’t have custody of their children. One of the...
Can you and the children move away when you get a new job?
Maybe you had to go back to school after your divorce to get a degree. Now you finally have a job offer, but it is in upstate New York. You currently share custody of your children with your ex-spouse, and you aren't sure how supportive they will be about the...
5 tips for managing a tense child custody exchange
The transfer of physical custody from one parent to another can lead to heated verbal exchanges and emotional turmoil. Even if the parents generally get along, personal factors and parenting disagreements can turn an uneventful meeting tense. While it might be...
What can you do to make co-parenting easier?
For parents who are no longer together, co-parenting can often be fairly difficult and stressful. You just want to give your child the best life possible, but you’re having a hard time focusing on that as you try to work with your ex. Wondering how you can make things...
Technology rules can be a stumbling block for shared custody
Technology and internet access used to be privileges. These days, electronics are the cornerstones of teenage socialization. Even middle school students want to play video games with their classmates online, join social media and get their own phone so that they can...
You have visitation or custody rights as an unmarried parent
Most everyone knows that custody proceedings typically occur when a couple with children divorces. However, fewer people realize that you don't have to be married in the first place to have custody rights. Even if the other parent has been the one who has had custody...
3 tips for handling custody exchanges with a difficult co-parent
You and your co-parent might not have ever been interested in being in one another’s lives long term. Thankfully, creating distance between the two of you is still possible — even when you must divide parenting time. Ahead of receiving a court-approved custody...
Working with a narcissistic co-parent
Divorces are sometimes the result of a mental health condition of one of the spouses. For some, this happens because of narcissism. Unfortunately, people who go have a child with a narcissist will still have to deal with that individual because of the child. There are...